Well, firstly, to journey to where I am in my life, I had a lot of forgiving to do. (And self-loving!)
I chose to forgive the people of my past
I chose to forgive the masculine
I chose to forgive the feminine
I chose to forgive my parents
I chose to forgive my ex-partners
I chose to forgive the patriarchy...
...& mostly importantly: I had to forgive MYSELF (Still working on that one 😘).
Maybe there’s someone who has passed onto the other side that you never expressed the truth of your heart with.
It can be so inflammatory for the mind & body to hold onto old resentments, suppressed anger or emotions. It's an inner disharmony that can silently eat away at you.
I realised that I was holding myself back from living my life at the fullest by not forgiving.
Forgiving = forward giving.
I was the *only* thing holding myself back from my own wholeness.
The unintegrated, tattered stories in my head were the only damn things in my own damn way!
I tried to heal alone in meditations, & it works, but only up to a certain point.
Some of the deepest, most transformative forgiveness I ever did, was when another guide held the space for me to create a powerful ritual out of it.
I sought out safe containers created by other healers, so I could actually discover & express the deeper reasons of WHY I couldn’t quite yet let go, & move on, & ultimately…free myself.
Now, I have been gifted an abundance of tools, rituals, & practices to actually nurture the process of forgiveness.
The more I enter into these rituals of forgiveness, the more peace I have within my mind, the more harmony I have within my body & the more wholesome I feel within my heart.
Something about the group container seems to enhance the metamorphosis…
It’s rare, to find the safe spaces that I am describing, to be guided in the ritual of forgiveness.
That’s why I started to create spaces like this for you.